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Michelle Kalam, BACP

Based in the UK Online sessions

Calm practical support for change

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About Michelle

Michelle Kalam is a BACP counsellor who offers practical support for people facing stress, anxiety and life changes. She aims to create an open environment where clients can talk freely and feel heard. Michelle presents herself as a calm presence who helps people take first steps towards change and greater wellbeing.

With four years of professional experience, Michelle works with a wide range of concerns. These include grief, self-esteem, relationship and family issues, trauma and abuse, eating concerns, parenting pressures, anger, career stress and depression.

Background and approach

She also supports people dealing with compassion fatigue, abandonment and attachment issues, body image and caregiver stress. Michelle helps people explore patterns in their relationships and responses to difficult events. She talks through coping strategies and practical steps that can make day-to-day life easier.

Where relevant she discusses communication, forgiveness, guilt and shame, and practical approaches for managing impulses and strong emotions. Her background includes work with people affected by domestic violence, divorce and separation, and hospice or end-of-life matters. Michelle also supports people on the autism spectrum and those working through family problems or feelings of emptiness.

She works with clients who identify as LGBT and aims to offer informed, respectful care. Clients are invited to decide the pace and focus of therapy. Michelle describes therapy as a collaborative process that balances listening with straightforward tools and gentle challenge.

She encourages people to try small changes and notice how those steps affect daily life.

Online support

How Michelle’s approaches translate to online work

Michelle uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on practical change and emotional understanding. One common approach helps people spot patterns in thoughts and behaviours and then test small changes to see what feels different. This approach is useful for anxiety, low mood, self-esteem and handling difficult day-to-day decisions.

Another frequent focus is on attachment and relationship patterns. Michelle helps clients identify how past relationships affect current ones and practices new ways of communicating and setting boundaries. This can help with family problems, relationship stress and feelings of abandonment.

Finding the right way of working is part of the process. Michelle aims to collaborate with each client to choose methods that match their needs, goals and personal preferences. She talks through options, checks what’s helpful, and adjusts the approach as therapy progresses.

Practical benefits of online therapy often include easier scheduling and fitting sessions around work or family commitments. Online sessions can reduce travel time and make regular check-ins simpler. The profile does not list specific session formats, so please confirm current session options before booking to ensure they fit your routine.
Questions

Questions people ask about Michelle

What concerns does Michelle commonly help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, grief and self-esteem issues as well as relationship and family problems. The list also includes trauma, eating issues, parenting pressures and compassion fatigue.

What is her general approach to therapy?

Her style is open and down-to-earth, focusing on listening and practical steps. She works collaboratively to help clients try small changes and new coping strategies.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Michelle has four years of professional experience as a therapeutic counsellor. That experience covers a range of emotional and life-stage concerns.

What professional credential does she hold?

She is registered with BACP, which is shown as BACP in her listed credentials.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does accept international clients according to the profile details.

How are fees and payments handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with Michelle?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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