About Thomas
Thomas "Tom" Relevitch is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom with ten years of professional experience. He helps people who are coping with stress, anxiety, relationship problems and life changes. Tom creates a calm, non-judgemental space so people can say what they think and feel without rushing.
Tom works in a straightforward way that fits each person. He listens closely to what matters to the client and adapts the pace of sessions to their needs.
Background and approach
He aims to make the first steps feel manageable and respects the courage it takes to start therapy. His background includes a mix of longer conversations and focused work that targets specific issues.
That means he can support people through complex feelings like shame, guilt or emptiness and also help with clearer problems such as communication difficulties, infidelity, separation and coping with midlife change. Tom also has experience around LGBT concerns, non-monogamous relationships and alternative sexual cultures including kink and BDSM.
He uses this experience to help people untangle relationship patterns, attachment worries and feelings of isolation. Sessions are practical and person-centred, with attention to what the client wants to achieve. He is used to helping people find clearer choices, set small goals and build better ways of coping over time.
What Thomas works with
Everything Thomas lists, in their own terms. LGBT is the reason Thomas is listed here; the rest shows what else Thomas works with.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Communication problems
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Approaches Thomas lists
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
How Thomas blends approaches for online therapy
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the person's perspective, with the counsellor offering empathy and non-judgemental listening. It helps when someone needs space to sort out feelings and make their own choices about change.Psychodynamic Therapy looks at patterns that repeat over time, including attachment and long-held emotional responses. This approach can help when problems stem from earlier relationships or recurring ways of coping that cause distress.
Solution-Focused Therapy concentrates on small, practical steps and the client's strengths. It is useful for people who want clear goals and quick, manageable changes in daily life.
Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will discuss your needs, goals and preferences and together you will decide what feels most helpful. This is a collaborative process and can change as progress is made.
Confirm the session formats available before booking because the biography does not list them. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, reduce time spent travelling and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Many people find remote work helps maintain continuity during life changes, while still keeping the focus on practical goals and emotional understanding.
Questions people ask about Thomas
What kinds of problems can I bring to therapy?
Tom works with stress, anxiety, relationship concerns and coping with life changes. He also supports people dealing with shame, emptiness, communication problems and issues around sexuality and non-monogamy.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
He uses a person-centred approach and draws on psychodynamic and solution-focused methods. That means sessions are led by the client, explore deeper patterns when useful, and can include practical steps for short-term goals.
What experience does he bring to sessions?
He has ten years of professional work experience in the UK supporting people with anxiety, relationship struggles and LGBT-related concerns among other issues.
What are Thomas Relevitch's credentials and location?
He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP. His practice is based in the United Kingdom.
Do you offer sessions in other languages or countries?
Sessions are offered in English. He is open to working with international clients.
What session formats are available?
Please confirm current session options before booking as formats are not specified in the biography. Check the booking flow to see which formats are offered.
How does pricing work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin if I want to work with him?
Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.
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